I'm a HUGE fan of the meteor gray. What's your interior color? I think that if you're going with black wheels, I would want to have a tan interior or possibly another hot type color, but a black interior and wheels - not sure about that, I would have to see one guess.
I would have said "No" to black wheels on a meteor gray car but the above picture looks pretty good.
That said, my personal favorite is the 18" Silver "S" wheels. As far as I can tell the silver is slightly brighter than the silver of the 17" wheels. (Just spent yesterday changing out the 17" wheels for 18" wheels.) The bright silver is a good contrast to the meteor gray.
Not my car...but if you visit the thread I listed above, you will see the posters name and you can send them a PM to ask about the wheels specifications.
here is a good photo (yes I know its not meteor gray but!):
This owner put gray wheels on a gray car, and went with clear side markers and tinted windows...and OMG this car is SOOOO HOT. By description it sounds boring...but in photos it looks incredible. If I had a gray car.....I would DEFINITELY go with his gray on gray set up.
Personally, I really like the black on grey. Did see a similar color 911 in a parking lot recently with color match wheels and polished lip, looked awesome.